A Bouquet of Spiritual Readings for Marriage

compiled by
Karen McCormick




“For the mature person,
the Tao begins in the relation between man and woman,
and ends in the infinite vastness of the Universe.”

~ Tzu-ssu (Taoist)



“We have taken the seven steps.  
You have become mine forever.  
Yes, we have become partners.  
I have become yours.  
Hereafter, I cannot live without you.  
Do not live without me.   
Let us share the joys.  
We are word and meaning, united.  
You are thought and  I am sound.

May the nights be honey-sweet for us;
may the mornings be honey-sweet  for us;
may the earth be honey-sweet for us;
may the heavens be honey-sweet for us.

May the plants be honey-sweet for us;
may the sun be all honey for us;
may the cows yield us honey-sweet milk!

As the  heavens are stable,
as the earth is stable,
as the mountains are stable,
as the whole universe is stable,
so may our union be permanently settled.”

~ from the Hindu marriage ritual of “Seven Steps"



“The minute I  heard my first love story
I started looking for you, not knowing
how blind that was.
Lovers don’t finally  meet somewhere.
They’re in each other all along.”

~ Rumi



“Nothing happens without a cause.   
The union of this man and woman has not come about accidentally but is the fore-ordained
result of many past lives.  This tie can therefore not be broken or dissolved.

In the future, happy occasions will come as surely as the morning.    
Difficult times will come as surely as night.  
When things go joyously, meditate according to Buddhist tradition.  
When things go badly, meditate.   
Meditation in the manner of the Compassionate Buddha will guide your life.

To say the words ‘love and compassion’ is easy.   
But to accept that love and compassion are built
upon patience and perserverance - is not easy.   
Remember this, and your marriage will be firm and lasting.”

~Buddhist marriage homily



“You are my [husband/wife]
My feet shall run because of you.
My feet dance because of you.
My heart shall beat because of you.
My  eyes see because of you.
My mind thinks because of you.
And I shall love because of you.”

~Eskimo/Inuit love song



“Love alone is capable of uniting living beings in such a way
as to complete and fulfill them, for it alone takes them and joins them
by what is deepest in themselves.  

At what moment do lovers come into the most complete possession of themselves,
if not when they say they are lost in each other?

…This law of human union is the law of cosmic Union.”

~Pierre Teilhard de Chardin, Christian Mystic



I seem to have loved you in numberless forms, numberless times…
In life after life, in age after age, forever.
My spellbound heart has made and remade the necklace of songs,
That you take as a gift, wear round your neck in your many forms,
In life after life, in age after age, forever.

Whenever I hear old chronicles of love, it's age-old pain,
It's ancient tale of being apart or together.
As I stare on and on into the past, in the end you emerge,
Clad in the light of a pole-star piercing the darkness of time:
You become an image of what is remembered forever.

You and I have floated here on the stream that brings from the fount.
At the heart of time, love of one for another.
We have played along side millions of lovers, shared in the same
Shy sweetness of meeting, the same distressful tears of farewell-
Old love but in shapes that renew and renew forever.

Today it is heaped at your feet, it has found its end in you
The love of all man’s days both past and forever:
Universal joy, universal sorrow, universal life.
The memories of all loves merging with this one love of ours –
And the songs of every poet past and forever.

~"Unending Love"
by Rabindranath Tagore